18. Building Unshakable Self-Esteem for Women

Her self-esteem

A woman's biggest challenge can be her self-esteem. A woman gets her self-esteem from her environment. She connects with her feminine, and she cannot make a mistake. When she does not feel worthy of a man's attention, she gives attention to make up for that.

What she can do

She can begin to hear herself. First, she writes down what she genuinely appreciates about herself, and why she is worthy. Second, through her day she notices where she felt a positive connection with someone, and where she felt a negative one.

Noticing those positive and negative connections shows her the people who are influencing how she feels about herself. Friends, coworkers, family, people on the street, anyone. She can see what triggers her. She can gradually give more of her attention to the people who support her and lift her up, and less to the ones who do not. The people who support her and lift her up help build the self-esteem she cannot build alone, because her self-esteem comes from her environment.

What a true man gives her

A true man is interested in her. She can trust him, and she can rely on him.

With him, she feels peace. He takes care of their life together, with her best interests in mind, and he does it willingly and with love. She feels loved and appreciated for who she is.